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Carrboro’s LGBTQ municipal firsts

Domestic partner registry, partner benefits and openly gay mayors, as recorded by the town.

From the 1990 equal employment policy and the 1994 domestic partnership ordinance, through Mike Nelson's mayoralty and Lydia Lavelle's, to the 2021 nondiscrimination ordinance: the town acts that made Carrboro a series of firsts.

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The Carrboro Town Hall sign
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  1. Carrboro Mayor Jim Porto makes a statement against discrimination toward gay men and lesbians In the same pride week, gay and lesbian rights were on the Carrboro Board of Aldermen's agenda for the first time, and the mayor made what a speaker at the Durham march called a strong statement on their behalf. Place: Carrboro · Also named: Jim PortoLambda (Carolina Gay and Lesbian Association, UNC), October 1986, p. 1
  2. Carrboro aldermen vote 6-1 to bar sexual-orientation discrimination in the town's transit agreement The Carrboro Board of Aldermen voted 6-1 to add a clause against discrimination by sexual orientation to the federal transit-funds agreement with Chapel Hill and Durham, which already had such rules. Alderman Jacquelyn Gist pressed for the clause and for adding it to the town's own employment policy. People: Jacquelyn Gist Place: Carrboro Town Hall, CarrboroThe Daily Tar Heel, November 20, 1990, p. 2
  3. Carrboro adds sexual orientation to its equal employment opportunity policy The Board of Aldermen unanimously amended the town's personnel ordinance to add sexual orientation to the characteristics protected in its merit principle and equal employment opportunity policy. On November 13, 1990 the Board had written a sexual orientation nondiscrimination clause into a planning grant agreement with the City of Durham and asked for the code amendment to be scheduled. People: Jacquelyn Gist Place: CarrboroTown of Carrboro: Board of Aldermen minutes, December 18, 1990
  4. Carrboro lets town employees take sick and bereavement leave for domestic partners Carrboro adopted a rule letting town employees take sick leave and bereavement leave for an unmarried partner, which the Daily Tar Heel reported in 1994 made it the first local government in North Carolina to do so. Supporters cited it as the groundwork for the domestic partners registry adopted in September 1994. Place: Town Hall, CarrboroThe Daily Tar Heel, September 14, 1994, p. 1
  5. Mike Nelson is elected to the Carrboro Board of Aldermen Nelson won a seat on the Carrboro Board of Aldermen in the election of November 2, 1993, finishing second of six candidates with 1,231 votes, and was sworn in on December 7; the Daily Tar Heel called him the only openly gay elected official in North Carolina. As an alderman he championed the domestic partners ordinance the town adopted in 1994. People: Mike Nelson Place: CarrboroSearch the index · UNC Wilson Special Collections Library: Michael R. Nelson Papers, circa 1890-2012 (#70140) · Also: The Daily Tar Heel, November 3, 1993, p. 3; The Daily Tar Heel, December 9, 1993, p. 3
  6. Hank Anderson and Mike Nelson take seats on the Carrboro Board of Aldermen Hank Anderson and Mike Nelson were sworn in as Carrboro aldermen on December 7, joining re-elected alderman Jacquelyn Gist and replacing Tom Gurganus, whose term had ended, and Hilliard Caldwell, who had lost the mayor's race to Eleanor Kinnaird. The Daily Tar Heel described Nelson as the only openly gay elected official in North Carolina; Anderson, a vice president of the local NAACP, said he wanted to organize the community against crime. People: Hank Anderson, Mike Nelson, Jacquelyn Gist, Hilliard Caldwell, Ellie Kinnaird Place: Town Hall, Carrboro · Also named: Tom GurganusThe Daily Tar Heel, December 9, 1993, p. 3
  7. About 80 residents debate Carrboro's proposed domestic partners ordinance At the aldermen's public hearing in Carrboro Town Hall, 14 residents spoke for the ordinance to register unmarried couples and extend town benefits to them and eight spoke against it, many of the opponents from Calvary Missionary Baptist Church, whose pastor the Rev. Gary Webb argued that it conflicted with state law. Doug Ferguson of the Orange Lesbian and Gay Association said it would strengthen families. People: Mike Nelson Place: Town Hall, Carrboro · Also named: Gary Webb, Doug FergusonThe Daily Tar Heel, September 7, 1994, p. 1
  8. Carrboro Board of Aldermen adopts a domestic partnership registry The Board voted unanimously to amend the Town Code so that statements of domestic partnership could be filed with the Town Clerk, set the effective date at October 11, 1994, added a $40 registration fee, and extended the financial disclosure required of elected officials to cover their domestic partners. The Board took no action on a third proposal to extend health insurance benefits to domestic partners of town employees. People: Mike Nelson, Jacquelyn Gist, Ellie Kinnaird Place: CarrboroTown of Carrboro: Board of Aldermen minutes, September 13, 1994 · Also: The Daily Tar Heel, September 15, 1994, p. 3; The Daily Tar Heel, September 28, 1994, p. 1
  9. Carrboro registers its first domestic partners On Oct. 11, the first day of registration under the domestic partnership ordinance proposed by Alderman Mike Nelson, three couples signed the register before Town Clerk Sarah Williamson at Carrboro Town Hall: a heterosexual couple, a lesbian couple and a gay male couple. The Daily Tar Heel called it the state's first domestic partnership registration, and one couple called themselves the South's first registered domestic partners; a week later they were still the only couples registered, and an Apex lawyer had asked for copies of every application. People: Mike Nelson, Ellie Kinnaird Place: Town Hall, Carrboro · Also named: Sarah WilliamsonThe Daily Tar Heel, October 12, 1994, p. 1
  10. Carrboro votes to pay for domestic partner coverage in its employee health plan Setting town employee health insurance for fiscal 1995-96, the Board of Aldermen voted that the town would bear any expense of adding coverage for domestic partners to its Kaiser plan, after asking staff on May 23 to find out why the insurer Healthsource did not offer such coverage. The vote was six to one, with Michael Nelson opposed. People: Mike Nelson, Jacquelyn Gist, Ellie Kinnaird Place: Carrboro · Also named: Michael NelsonTown of Carrboro: Board of Aldermen minutes, June 6, 1995
  11. Mike Nelson is elected mayor of Carrboro Michael R. Nelson, then a member of the Carrboro Board of Aldermen, won the mayor's race at the municipal election held on November 7, 1995, becoming the first openly gay mayor elected in North Carolina. The Board approved the Orange County abstract of votes from that election at its meeting of December 5, 1995. People: Mike Nelson, Ellie Kinnaird Place: CarrboroTown of Carrboro: Board of Aldermen minutes, December 5, 1995
  12. Mike Nelson is sworn in as mayor of Carrboro At the Board of Aldermen meeting of December 5, 1995, outgoing mayor Eleanor Kinnaird gave closing remarks and Mayor-elect Michael R. Nelson took the oath of office, along with aldermen-elect Jay Bryan, Hilliard Caldwell and Alex Zaffron. The Board then appointed Diana McDuffee to the alderman seat Nelson vacated. People: Mike Nelson, Ellie Kinnaird, Hilliard Caldwell, Diana McDuffee, Alex Zaffron Place: Carrboro · Also named: Jay BryanTown of Carrboro: Board of Aldermen minutes, December 5, 1995
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  1. Mayor Mike Nelson proclaims June Lesbian and Gay Pride Month in Carrboro At the Board of Aldermen meeting of June 3, 1997, Mayor Michael Nelson issued a proclamation naming June Lesbian and Gay Pride Month in the Town of Carrboro. People: Mike Nelson Place: Carrboro · Also named: Michael NelsonTown of Carrboro: Board of Aldermen minutes, June 3, 1997
  2. Mike Nelson presides over his last meeting as mayor of Carrboro At the December 6, 2005 meeting the Board of Aldermen approved the November 8 election results, in which Mark Chilton defeated Alex Zaffron for mayor, 1,337 to 776, and outgoing Mayor Michael Nelson gave his parting comments. People: Mike Nelson, Mark Chilton, Diana McDuffee, Alex Zaffron Place: Carrboro Town Hall · Also named: Michael NelsonSearch the index · Town of Carrboro: Board of Aldermen minutes, December 6, 2005
  3. Lydia Lavelle is elected to the Carrboro Board of Aldermen In her first run for office Lavelle led the field of aldermen candidates with 1,656 votes, about 25 percent, ahead of two-term incumbent Joal Hall Broun and Dan Coleman. She lived in the northern part of town Carrboro had recently annexed, and Mayor Mark Chilton read her first-place finish as a sign that voters were ready to move past the annexation fight. People: Lydia Lavelle, Joal Hall Broun, Mark Chilton Place: Carrboro · Also named: Dan ColemanSearch the index · The Carrboro Citizen: Lavelle wins a seat; Broun, Coleman, Chilton returned to board
  4. Lydia Lavelle takes office as Carrboro mayor, the first openly lesbian mayor in North Carolina Lydia Lavelle, who ran unopposed for mayor in the fall 2013 election, was sworn in on December 3, 2013 as North Carolina's first openly lesbian mayor. Aldermen Randee Haven-O'Donnell, Sammy Slade and Jacquelyn Gist were sworn in for new terms at the same meeting. People: Lydia Lavelle, Jacquelyn Gist, Randee Haven-O'Donnell, Sammy Slade Place: CarrboroChapelboro: Carrboro Celebrates NC's 1st Openly-Lesbian Mayor
  5. Same-sex couples begin receiving marriage licenses in Orange County A federal judge struck down North Carolina's ban on same-sex marriage late on Friday, October 10, 2014, by which time the Orange County Register of Deeds office in Hillsborough had closed for the day. The office issued its first licences to same-sex couples when it reopened on Monday, October 13, with Carrboro mayor Lydia Lavelle and Alicia Stemper first in line; the two married at the Carrboro Town Commons on October 25, 2014. People: Lydia Lavelle Place: Countywide · Also named: Alicia StemperChapel Hill/Orange County Visitors Bureau: Chapel Hill and Carrboro, NC is a great destination for LGBT travelers and weddings
  6. Carrboro Board of Aldermen calls for the repeal of House Bill 2 at a Saturday special meeting Three days after the General Assembly passed and Governor Pat McCrory signed House Bill 2, the Board met in special session and adopted a resolution affirming the dignity of LGBT people, calling for the law's repeal and urging other North Carolina governments to use it as a model, then adopted a second resolution condemning by name the legislators and governor who enacted it. Both passed six to none with Jacquelyn Gist absent, and the Board asked staff to raise the town's rainbow pride flags on March 28. People: Lydia Lavelle, Randee Haven-O'Donnell, Sammy Slade, Damon Seils Place: Carrboro · Also named: Jacquelyn GistTown of Carrboro: Board of Aldermen special meeting minutes, March 26, 2016
  7. Carrboro Town Council adopts a nondiscrimination ordinance covering sexual orientation and gender identity Six weeks after the state's moratorium on local employment and public accommodation ordinances expired on December 1, 2020, the Council unanimously adopted Ordinance No. 10/20-21, adding to Chapter 8 of the Town Code a ban on discrimination in employment and places of public accommodation that covers sexual orientation and gender identity or expression. The ordinance took effect on adoption and cited the town's March 26, 2016 pledge to seek such protections. People: Lydia Lavelle, Jacquelyn Gist, Randee Haven-O'Donnell, Sammy Slade, Barbara Foushee, Damon Seils Place: CarrboroTown of Carrboro: Town Council minutes, January 12, 2021
  8. Lydia Lavelle announces she will not seek a fifth term as Carrboro mayor After four terms as mayor and fourteen years in town office, Lavelle said she would not run again, saying that to everything there is a season and that she looked forward to what came next. People: Lydia Lavelle Place: CarrboroSearch the index · INDY Week: Carrboro Mayor Lydia Lavelle Won't Seek Fifth Term
  9. Carrboro honors Lydia Lavelle as Damon Seils is sworn in as mayor At the council's meeting the town honored Lavelle for her four terms as mayor, and state senator Valerie Foushee administered the oath of office to her successor, Damon Seils. Randee Haven-O'Donnell, Barbara Foushee and Danny Nowell began council terms at the same meeting. People: Lydia Lavelle, Valerie Foushee, Randee Haven-O'Donnell, Barbara Foushee, Damon Seils Place: Carrboro · Also named: Danny NowellSearch the index · Chapelboro: Carrboro Town Council Swears In New Mayor, Council Members

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Ellie Kinnaird papers, 1987-2016.

Kinnaird, Ellie (Eleanor G.), 1931- · 1987

Papers of Ellie Kinnaird, born 1931, a North Carolina state senator, spanning 1987 to 2016 and running to roughly 6,400 items across 20.5 linear feet in the Southern Historical Collection at UNC, collection 5356. The papers focus on capital punishment in North Carolina and the campaigns against it, health insurance legislation, voting technology, and the work of women legislators in the General Assembly.

Included because: Its title names this subject.

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Michael R. Nelson papers, circa 1890-2012

Nelson, Michael R., 1963- · 1890

Roughly 2,000 items in 6.5 linear feet kept as the papers of Michael R. Nelson, born 1963, dated from about 1890 to 2012, collection 70140 in the Southern Historical Collection at UNC. Topics include politics and government in Carrboro, Chapel Hill and Orange County, campaign paraphernalia, and gay activists and politicians in North Carolina, naming Joseph A. Herzenberg, 1941 to 2007.

Included because: The record names this subject alongside a heading for the county or its towns.

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